DRESS TO IMPRESS (YOURSELF)

It’s all about YOU feeling good in what you’re wearing. When you feel good you look good because you’re confident. And confidence is the sexiest thing you can wear.

That being said, less is more. Show skin but don’t show everything! Let them think they’re gonna see it all but definitely keep some hidden.

Create a buildup, sexual tension, desire. Eroticism comes from imagination. If you show it all too soon… interest is lost, you want to play with the gaze, direct it, tease it.

Sheer lingerie is super sexy. You can show a bit of nip through the fabric but always always leave them wanting more. Imagination and mystery is what gives lingerie its erotic power and makes it SO tantalizing.

The interplay between what is veiled and what is revealed, perfectly placed straps and lace framing and highlighting your assets and helping you transform into a total sex goddess.

What you wear really has such an impact on your energy!

Take actors for example, they do dress rehearsals because the costumes really get them into character. You want to build yourself up and get inspired by all your senses.

Visuals being the most important at this stage. And again the key here is to turn yourself on. When you’re turned on by yourself, YOU ARE MAGNETIC.

That’s what people are attracted to. They are attracted to you feeling yourself. So always always always focus on what makes YOU feel sexy.

They audience (if any) is kind of an afterthought honestly. They get to benefit from your joy and pleasure, but it’s for you first.

LINGERIE TIPS:

Bodysuits are everything. They are so flattering. You don’t have to worry about belly rolls or weird angles. If in doubt or if you feel like you’re having a bloated day, put on a bodysuit, it’s magic I’m not joking. 

Otherwise any lingerie set you feel good in is perfect. In my humble opinion, the Nova by Bluebella is the sexiest set (and all my lingerie clients would agree, it’s the all time bestseller!). People think I have big boobs… I’m a 32B/34A. My secret is cut out bras. They make small boobs look bigger. They frame your assets like a work of art.

Same goes for the Nova ouvert brief. If you have a bigger booty, these are insanely hot. I personally love the thong because I hike it up high on my hips and I find it mega flattering. Whatever draws you in. For those of you with larger breasts the closed Nova is just as sexy and keeps everything in. Otherwise you can’t go wrong with lacy and black. It’s flattering on all skin tones, all body shapes.

Thigh highs. Omaagaawwwddd drawing attention to your legs. Fire.

This lingerie selection is from bluebella.com